(socially acceptable, non-crass methods to ask chicks to fall asleep to you)
updated: March 17 2019 – haha – “Netflix and Chill” was originally our ‘idea’, nevertheless now it is mainstream!
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Used to do a video (see below) and was not planning to execute a post about this ‘common sense’ subject but I made a decision it absolutely was an idea that is good every person see this.
Dudes that “research” sex/dating in the Internet often experience ‘information overload’ and literally freeze up throughout their interactions or do not know where to find out where in fact the girls appears.
They likewise have drawn in a lot of “game” disinformation that Good Loser that is looking is responsible for reversing.
I’m sure you have seen those “Asking 100 Girls For Sex” or “Will You Have Sex beside me?” viral YouTube videos where some guy asks 100 girls should they will rest with him. Frequently he asks the question while the very thing that is first states.
For instance –
(do not bother watching these in complete)
The girls see the camera, in some cases not in some cases. It doesn’t really matter.
The outcomes are identical in most the videos –
>98% of this girls state “No.”
Here are the two methods –
Dining Table of Contents
0:00 The YouTube “social experiments” – just what do they mean?
1:45 Verbal vs. physical screening (physical will ALWAYS get you further, faster)
4:15 “can you prefer to get together for a drink ?” “Lets grab a drink tonight.”
(try not to recommend it’s a date or coffee)
5:45 Logistical issues – where guys that nail 50+ girls via cold approach live.
7:25 “can you want to come over and watch a film ?” “You should drop by and now we’ll view a film .”
8:20 “Normal” guys that Get Laid a great deal use each of these ALL TIME.
9:45 Stupid egghead rebuttal: “seeking rapport/asking questions” is wrong.
11:20 A note on simply how much “game” really matters.
12:00 which can be better? Spoken or physical stuff?
12:45 ways to get faster using the physical material.
15:00 Use both: ask woman to generally meet for a glass or two, then her to come over for a movie/drink.
Tonight#1 Offer to Meet Up for a Drink
(“You want to grab a drink? Lets do this.”)
This proposition, among guys that get a lot of pussy, may be the single most used line when you look at the reputation for the universe.
Every woman when you look at the universe (unless you REALLY seem like boyfriend material) understands this might be an invite for future intercourse.
This is the universal, polite, socially appropriate invite for intercourse.
As a potential boyfriend and withholds her pussy until you are emotionally invested so you don’t think she’s a slut if you are looking to Get Laid, this is a much better alternative than asking a girl to “dinner” so she starts looking at you.
Perhaps the minority of apprehensive girls that think “he’s most likely just hoping to get me drunk”, will ironically totally let you achieve this – if they’re intimately available and DTF.
Lots of dudes are afraid to make use of this idea since it’s “overused” or “too normal”.
That is ridiculous, the wish to be creative/witty is in fact insecurity and inexperience that is social.
(i am there, trust in me)
Other people are scared that girls will think “this guy really wants to rape me”.
Emotionally healthy girls WILL NOT THAT that is THINK.
Simply trust me on this 1 too.
A DTF woman will likely not turn down a courteous invite to have a drink if she likes you with you.
We completely encourage you to definitely use this proposition EACH TIME before taking a woman’s quantity.
no. 2 Offer to look at a Movie/Hangout (at your home)
(“the trend is to drop by tonight so we’ll grab/watch a film and go out?”)
If “grabbing a drink” is the number 1 idea of all-time, “watch a movie/hangout” is #1b.
It may be number 1 actually, this is just what every person who Gets Laid in university uses when they aren’t at parties.
(but it is often the ‘after party’ pretense)
Just like the proposition that is prior girls realize “watch a movie” become an invite for intercourse (or at the least some kind of messing around).
The”watch a movie/hangout” proposition is socially acceptable, polite and not too forward like”getting a drink.
Maybe it’s obvious but you are proposing to “watch a movie”, “pick up a film” (go out) rather than “see a film” or “go to a movie” (date).
Make that clear.
(it often is if you say “hangout”)
The invite is just a excuse that is socially acceptable your ex to come over and fool around – whenever you want.
If you should be “getting a glass or two” with a woman (or end up on an even more traditional date) you should use this pretense to obtain the woman to come over afterward.
All girls understand what it indicates.
Girls know this and can come over looking means hotter than should they were just likely to view a film.
A “movie/hangout” may be the universal socially acceptable method for getting a lady to come over, but these alternatives are acceptable too –
Come over and now we’ll chill.
Come over and now we’ll earn some food and also some drinks.
Come over and we also’ll simply chill when you look at the tub that is hot.
Come over and now we’ll smoke weed.
Come over and then we’ll do some blow.
These pretenses are certainly not necessary once you’ve fucked the lady and this woman is your fuckbuddy (simply tell/ask her to come over) – but can be of good use.
Its not necessary virtually any pretenses compared to those 2.
How/Why Performs This “Work”!?
Since the woman likes you and would like to have sexual intercourse to you.
This woman is often simply waiting for the chance to achieve this.
Ideally, your ex should ALREADY KNOW what you are looking (intercourse, not really a gf) for whenever you meet her, however these propositions will leave without doubt.
Because of this after you meet them that I don’t believe in garbage like “text game” or “working on” girls. Even yet in the instances that are small it might appear be effective, it’s scarcely efficient and odds are – the lady ALREADY liked you.
Next time you intend to communicate (verbally) with her and want to know where she stands – just suggest a “drink” or “movie/hangout” that you want to sleep.
You will get your response.
Although I encourage, real screening (just a little goes quite a distance, specially through the day), this sort of “verbal testing” is a great option to get to the idea if you’ren’t comfortable being physical with girls.
(still – try to get confident with it, verbal screening will never be just like real assessment + little talk)
Once per week, someone asks getting a lady to come over or wonders the right way to step up a “hang out” instead of a date.
Then that’s good news if this was common sense to you (therefore you should have ALREADY have experience using these pretenses at least 20-30 times.
It’s likely that – you have got recently been Getting Laid and hopefully this tied up some loose ends.
You now have the CORRECT answer to if it wasn’t common sense –
Exactly What do i actually do to meet (and never date) a lady?
This really is as simple as it gets as soon as a girl likes you – she will jump in the opportunity to obtain a drink/movie and chill to you.